Tuesday, November 15, 2005

Meditation Instructions Just For You!

First of all, let me begin this post by letting you all know how happy I am that you found my previous post so helpful and enlightening. It seems obvious that the spirit of Sally's workshop carried over into the post, and that makes my heart smile a mile wide.

Many of you have asked me to share my meditation secrets with you. There are no secrets, but there are many techniques that can help you center yourself. Here's a very simple technique to help you center yourself (to find the space within yourselves that is pure being; i.e. no stress, no worries, no anxieties. The place of strength, courage, and contentment). You can do this meditation while waiting in line at the bank, or in the supermarket; while waiting at a red light, or while waiting for your computer to boot up. The possibilities are endless!:

1. PAUSE and BREATHE DEEPLY
Bring yourself into the present moment by taking at least 3 deep inhalations and exhalations.

2. BECOME AWARE OF YOUR MENTAL STATE
How do you feel right now?
What emotions do you notice?

3. BECOME AWARE OF YOUR PHYSICAL STATE…AWARE OF YOUR BODY
What part of your body needs to relax right now?
Where do you need to release tension?

4. LET IT GO
Let go of any tension…breath into it, and breathe it out on the exhalation.
Acknowledge—but don’t judge—any thoughts or emotions that come up. Simply acknowledging them usually helps to weaken their grip.




Some of you have asked me to share meditation techniques that alleviate pain, while others have asked me how to relieve stress by way of meditation. The following is a technique that I learned years ago while practicing Chi-Kung. The same practice can be found in Tantric, Hindu, and Buddhist texts. It's a relatively universal meditation technique! The instructions may seem simple, and this may appear to be a 'beginners' meditation technique, however, the more you do it, the deeper it takes you and the richer your meditations become. My point is, it's a terrific meditation/centering technique to teach beginners, but don't let its simplicity fool you: it's powerful beyond words!

The following is Sally Kempton's rendering of this practice which you can find in her Heart of Meditation book:


*UJAYI BREATH—(3-part breathing)
The Ujayi Breath is when you fill up the lungs in three sections: the lower third, then the middle third, then the upper third.

· Sit in a comfortable, upright position. If you are sitting in a chair, make sure your legs are hip-width apart, and your feet are flat on the floor. Sit up nice and tall, extending the spine upwards.


· Breathe in with the feeling that you are filling up your lungs in three separate sections. You may find it helpful to place your hand on your abdomen and actually feel your lower lungs fill with air. Notice your stomach area filling with air. Notice your upper chest rising as the upper third of your lungs fills with air.


· Breathe deeply, and long. Deep inhalations. Long exhalations.


· The ratio to inhalation vs. exhalation is 1:2. Breathe in for 4 seconds, filling all three parts of the lungs, abdomen first. Hold your breath for 4 seconds. Breathe out long and slowly for a count of 8 seconds. Pause for 4 seconds before your next inhalation. For deep, instant relaxation, repeat this breath for 3-5 minutes. If you start to feel lightheaded, you simply need to slow down, and let your body acclimate itself to all of the newfound oxygen!

If you find it difficult to learn the meditations on your own, you can always do a guided meditation. I would highly recommend Sally Kempton's Awakened Heart Meditation CD (click here for more details).

If you'd like to learn more about Sally Kempton's Heart of Meditation book, click here. Note: 30 years of meditation experience wrapped up in a book! :)

Visit www.sallykempton.com for her workshop schedule (SHE'S IN NEW YORK CITY THIS WEEKEND!!)

I hope these meditations prove fruitful for you. They are pillars of strength in my life. If you have any questions, please feel free to email me at any time.

Namaste!

Bhakti



(Note: NONE of these meditations should be used to treat medical conditions unless by the advice of a doctor. Do NOT do these meditations while driving. Be sensible.)

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24 comments:

  1. Did someone order a new middle-east style avatar? I took a crack at it and came up with this:

    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v701/Artiki/bhakti.gif

    I didn't know your hair color so I went with orange. Poetic license and all.

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  2. YOU ARE JUST TOO COOL!!!!!
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    I owe you some chocolate, man.
    Where can I send it??

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  3. Ladies and gentleman, may I introduce the NEW me...as drawn by GYROBO!!!

    (Look to the right, people, I'm ON FIRE!!!)

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  4. Glad you like it! It's the second animated avatar I've ever made, after my "angry Gryobo" animation. And both involve fire.

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  5. Anonymous9:05 PM

    Alright! I like it!! Great job, gyrobo!

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  6. You are just TOO cool!
    I love it. I can't thank you enough. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you...(that's a start)

    I love your artwork, by the way.
    Very cool!

    I've just linked you to my site.
    :)

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  7. By the way...I'm not sure if you are aware of this or not, but you made my skin BLUE, just like the color of Shri Krishna's skin.

    That's just too cool!

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  8. Anonymous10:03 PM

    Wow thsi was great! I have a compound fracture in my back.. that also creates alot of pain.. I will try this!
    again my thanks!

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  9. I just had a triple fusion in my neck...so I understand your pain!

    Much luck with the meditations.

    Feel free to email me. I have a couple of readers who email me regarding dealing with pain.
    I'm more than happy to teach you what works for me!

    Feel better soon!
    Bhakti

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  10. Your posts are fantastic... And your Avatar is faboo as well.

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  11. Have not been able to try them yet but I will do later.

    Love the new look - it is fantastic! I may ask for a sparkly tiara one for Christmas :)

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  12. Frida-- Thank you for the lovely comment! And thanks for visiting the blog.

    Miladysa-- It looks like I'm wearing some sort of tiara! How did he know I was blog royalty?? LOL

    Perhaps you could print out the meditation exercises and read them the next time you are stuck in line at the supermarket?? That's a terrific place to do the exercises, and it will save you from buying needless items while you're waiting to check out!

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  13. When I draw people, I tend to make their skin an aqua color. I don't know how it started, but hey, it works. Awesome, dude.

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  14. Anonymous3:35 PM

    I will try these when I get a chance...I really cant do them while driving?? What about while watching a movie?

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  15. No...don't do them while driving. However, you CAN do them while stopped at a red light. Don't worry, the person behind you will honk their horn to let you know the light has changed to green. (seriously, don't meditate and drive. Bad combination. In fact, I'm starting a new support group called MAMD--Muthers against Meditating Drivers). Or not.

    And, as far as the movies go...that really depends which movie you're watching. I often find myself falling into deep meditation during some films...or was that deep sleep???

    I'm off to see the wizard with Boo right now...call ya later 'Anonymoose'.

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  16. Thanks for visiting my site and also for the linking. I will link back to your site as well.Meditation...Ommmmmm...Many,many years ago, I took up Yoga lessons but have not practised it for a long, long time. Maybe, I should start doing the exercises again...if I can remember all the poses.

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  17. I love your closing warning about not doing meditation while driving. I've seen some of those guys... I keep thinking I should do a class in yoga, the gym I belong to have classes, but I've yet to do it--I enjoy swimming and weights and do do prayer meditations. What does your name and blog name mean?

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  18. Hi Sage!
    Good question (about my name) I was wondering when someone would ask!

    There are basically 4 paths of yoga:

    Raja Yoga Discipline of quieting the mind (meditation)

    Karma Yoga The yoga of action; Selfless Service. Giving to others while remaining detached from the fruits of those actions.

    Jnana Yoga yoga of knowledge; a spiritual path based on continuous contemplation and self-inquiry.

    Bhakti Yoga (Devotion) The yoga of devotion; a path to union with the Divine based on the continual offering of love to God and the constant remembrance of God.


    My spiritual teacher, Swami Chidvilasananda, bestowed the name Bhakti upon me several years ago. It is a very fitting name for me, as my life has always been about finding the Truth...the joy that exists within all of our hearts!

    JAI literally means victory.

    JAIBHAKTI means victory to love and devotion!


    By the way, the word YOGA literally means union, the state of oneness with the Self, with God. A lot of western yoga teachers don't introduce the spiritual aspect of the physical (hatha) yoga. I, personally, think it's best to know what yoga means and is all about in order to help you find the best teacher. I don't think you want the kind of westerner teacher who treats yoga simply as an exercise. It's always been a spiritual practice in India. It's a form of meditation and realigns the energies in your body.

    I hope you find a yoga class that you like...I guarantee you'll feel terrific after the classes!

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  19. I've never meditated before. Had a martial arts teacher once who was really into it and suggested I do it.

    However, I'm heavily into massage. I see it as one of the best of the "healing arts" and have gladly spent a lot of money on many masseuses.

    The other thing is my wife and I were doing yoga together for awhile. Unfortunately, our jobs started conflicting with yoga and we stopped. I'd love to get back into yoga. It has done wonders for both of our backs and it will definitely put years back onto our lives when we get back into it.

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  20. I agree with you 100% that massage is the 'bomb-diggity'. I, too, appreciate the healing power of massage. I've made a promise to myself that when I am back to work in February, I will treat myself to a massage every month! Yahoo!

    How were your jobs conflicting with the yoga? Were your bosses upset that you were walking around bent in pretzel shape all day? Just for your information, you're not supposed to stay in the contorted positions while existing in the world. Just while on the mat. I hope that info helps.

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  21. 11 18 05

    Bhakti:
    Thx for sharing. I don't know if you realize how touched I am when I come to visit your blog. What you describe reminds me of mindful meditation techniques I used when I took ill a couple of years ago. I am a lot better now, but honestly believe the meditation bettered my condition! I will point others to your site.

    By the way, I am really into a musician named Robert Rich. I don't know if you have heard of him, but he does ambiant music, some tribal organic music and when I need to calm my nerves or be stimulated to think, I listen to him. Check out his site if you have a chance and the inclination:) www.robertrich.com

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  22. Mahndisa I am thrilled that you are touched by my blog. Thank you for saying that.

    I have never heard of Robert Rich, but I will be sure to check him out. Thank you for introducing him to me...so to speak.

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